Love Yourself So No One Has To

Kiana. 17. Canadian. Pansexual.
Interested in crime.
I have a lot of problems.
I used to be trig-ger
notenoughtosurvive is my best friend and my baby
thereisnohopeformehere is my lady lover

truecrimehothouse:

In 2011, John Barry and Jacob Parish were sentenced for their roles in the dragging death of James Kozicki.  John Barry sits in Lakeland Correctional Facility, his maximum discharge date set for 10/02/2025.  He is 20 years old.  Jacob Parish was paroled 08/06/2014.  He is 21 years old.

queenofthereptiles:

hetshipsareboring:

laina:

in reference to this post let me clarify some stuff because people have been on my ass nonstop about it
we had a good hour-long discussion about different parts of feminism and stuff, obviously I condensed the conversation… he was genuinely curious and he was asking questions and talking thru it!!!! it was a positive forward-moving conversation
UNRELATED TO THAT we ended up hooking up a couple days later and I thought it was funny because that’s how I met him, because we were both in the common room watching the show
he’s a really nice kid and he’s cute and he wasn’t trying to “play” me and we aren’t dating and if you think I did him as some sort of “reward” please reconsider because that’s wrong
okay? okay! thank you! hope that clarified some !!!

The fact that you had to clarify this is why we need feminism.

The fact that you had to clarify this is why we need feminism.
Do not!! Shame women!! For who they choose to have sex with!!

queenofthereptiles:

hetshipsareboring:

laina:

in reference to this post let me clarify some stuff because people have been on my ass nonstop about it

we had a good hour-long discussion about different parts of feminism and stuff, obviously I condensed the conversation… he was genuinely curious and he was asking questions and talking thru it!!!! it was a positive forward-moving conversation

UNRELATED TO THAT we ended up hooking up a couple days later and I thought it was funny because that’s how I met him, because we were both in the common room watching the show

he’s a really nice kid and he’s cute and he wasn’t trying to “play” me and we aren’t dating and if you think I did him as some sort of “reward” please reconsider because that’s wrong

okay? okay! thank you! hope that clarified some !!!

The fact that you had to clarify this is why we need feminism.

The fact that you had to clarify this is why we need feminism.

Do not!! Shame women!! For who they choose to have sex with!!

trcunning:

earthdad:

ok but give me one good reason why you wouldn’t date Kermit the frog besides that he is a puppet and a frog

I can’t beat Miss Piggy in a fight. She’s very strong and knows karate.

“1. push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5:30am. go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise.

2. push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable.

3. get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast. fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else.

4. stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything.

5. buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, then try drinking it twice.

6. buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. no detail is too small.

7. strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine. put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash. make your bed in full.

8. organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle.

9. have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth. lather your whole body in moisturiser, get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck.

10. push yourself to go for a walk. take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. realise you can learn from your dog.

11. message old friends with personal jokes. reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through.

13. think long and hard about what interests you. crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette? find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything.

14. become the person you would ideally fall in love with. let cars merge into your lane when driving. pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends.

15. lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you.”

(via elauxe)

A self care list. I’ve been working on this. I promise it’s worth it.

(via sweetbloodsomalia)

“People want to hear songs with the words they’re afraid to say.”

(via dreamsofvodka)

kryskillinit:

crazy eyes is the realest bitch. 

prettyparamore:

Vic Fuentes // Pierce The Veil

thehealthywarrior:

Britain’s first black marchioness

Okay y’all. 

This is: Emma McQuiston

And as that says, she’s this first black marchioness Britain has ever had. 

But she’s not the only black royal

but THIS IS A BIG DEAL.

plus she’s getting snubbed like big time. The groom’s father didn’t even come. And she said things like: 

she has been snubbed by the British elite because of her ethnicity and background

SO REBLOG IT, CAUSE SHE’S GORGEOUS AND EVERYONE SHOULD LOVE HER.

jawnthebaptiste:

kingjaffejoffer:

Michael Brown’s dad before the burial. 

The emotion and all of the sweat…. shit is hard to look at, even if its only a picture

I didn’t want to reblog this because it’s hard to look at, but people SHOULD see it.

We SHOULD see a father mourning his teenage son.

We SHOULD see how a killing like Mike’s can take a toll on not only a community, but a family.

It’s as easy for young black men to become martyrs as it is for them to become victims. They can never just be humans. 

We can never just be.

awwww-cute:

I asked my friend if she was having a good day today. All she replied with was this